Attending
an office party? Don't check your professional reputation along with
your coat. An office party gives you the opportunity to celebrate the holidays
or other occasion with your co-workers. You should have fun, but be careful
about having too good a time. Follow these tips and you'll be able to return to
the office with your head held high.
1.
Don't Drink Too Much
Alcohol
lowers your inhibitions and alters your judgement. It can make you do things
you may regret. Even if you think you can handle your alcohol quite well, one
mixed drink or a glass of wine at the office party should be your limit.
Remember, perception is everything. You don't want to look like you're drinking
too much, even if alcohol has little effect on you.
2.
Don't Treat the Office Party like a Singles Bar
An
office party gives you a chance to see another side of your co-workers.
However, you shouldn't try to get to know any of them too well. Jim
(or Jane) from accounting may suddenly look a lot more appealing under bar
lights than cubicle lights. Ignore your animal instincts. Workplace romances —
or worse, one night stands — can be disastrous.
3.
Don't Flirt or Act in a Sexually Provactive Manner
Your
flirting may be entirely innocent (if it's not please see #2), but the message
it sends to your colleagues isn't innocent. If you want to be respected on a
professional level, save this side of yourself for parties with friends.
4.
Don't Wear Suggestive Clothing
If
you wouldn't wear it to the office, you shouldn't wear it to the
office party. Of course, your clothes can be more festive than those you wear
to work (think sequins, color, and sparkles), but they shouldn't be revealing.
5.
Don't Let Your Guard Down
People
tend to relax at office parties. When relaxed, we let our guards down and
reveal things about ourselves we don't want our co-workers to know. Alcohol may
contribute to this too, so be sure to pay careful attention to item #1.
6.
Don't Tell Dirty or Off-Color Jokes
This
rule holds true in or out of the office. Dirty or off-color jokes may be
offensive to others so avoid telling them.
7.
Don't Use Foul Language
You
may feel so comfortable at the office party that you forget you're really at
work. Keep bad language in check as it could make you look unprofessional.
8.
Don't Talk About People Behind Their Backs
Just
because someone is absent from the office party it doesn't give you reason to
talk about him behind his back. In addition to the fact that it's just not
nice, this person's friends may be present and word could get back to him.
9.
Don't Bring Uninvited Guests
Often
office parties are for employees only. Don't assume it's okay to bring your
significant other or someone else without asking first.
10.
Don't Underestimate the Importance of Your Guest's Behavior
If
it's okay to bring a guest, choose wisely. Invite someone who will behave
appropriately. That means he or she will have to follow the same rules you are
expected to follow.
With Thanks to:
Dawn Rosenberg McKay
http://careerplanning.about.com/od/workplacesurvival/tp/party_donts.htm
Creator Public Relations Pvt. Ltd.
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